Dec 31 2008
Dont mess with my children……
Ok, so now I am more livid about the boyfriends daughter situation… In a recent blog, I had stated that for some odd reason I just could not bond with this child who is 12 by the way. But after today, I seem to understand alittle better why that I cannot. My 14 year old son was at the house today, and he and my step daughter were goofing off downstairs with each other and he pushed her onto the bed. Well she bumped her tailbone on something and from that point it was war with her. It was an accident and he tried to apologize but she wasnt having any of it. He came upstairs and he only had a tank top on and it looked like he had been mauled all over his chest and upper body where she had hit, scratched and beat the living day lights out of him. I was beyond my point of loosing control with this child. I had worked all night and was trying to sleep some before I had to come in tonight and she would not be quite. I literally have had no sleep because of her in the last 2 nights. By no means are my children perfect nor do they act it, but they do have manners and Zac knows not to hit a girl. He is 14 and she is only 12 but she is way bigger than he is. And this isnt the first time that she has laid her hands on my children and I finally told Zac to knock her lights out if she does it again and her daddy will just have to go through me when he gets mad about it. But I am no longer going to let this child bully or hit my children. I am done with it, I have ask him and ask him to talk to her, if he cant, then I will and she will not like what I have to say. I honestly dont think that there is any hope for our relationship as step mother/step daughter…
